Self love is more than the feel good fluffy stuff. I beleive it’s at the root of all joy and happiness. If we don’t truly believe that we are worthy and deserving of all the goodness we want out of life, we’ll sabotage ourselves just as we’re about to experience it fully.
This is usually in a sneaky and subconscious way too, in fact you may not even know it’s happening when it most likely is. It looks a lot like living the same behavior on repeat that’s keeping you stuck but not really knowing why you can’t break free.
The holidays are some of the hardest times to practice self love and care, and with triggers from others it can be taxing on our feelings of self worth. It’s easy to give give give, put your needs last and burn yourself out, and take things personally from people who may mean no harm at all.
This can lead to resentment, exhaustion, self sabotage, and lack of joy and connection during what has the potential of being a love filled and connected time of year!
If you’re needing support in the self love, self worth, and self care department this time of year or any time for that matter, please join us in our Free Holiday Survival Series! Every Wednesday night until December 28th I’m hosting a Coaching and Q&A Call and tonight’s is all about Taking Care of You Through the Holidays
When I’m talking self love, I’m talking the unconditional love, compassion and respect for every part of yourself, your dark and your light, that is so deep, so beautiful and so all-encompassing that it nourishes every cell of your being. Since you’re completely nourished, and so filled up with love, you only choose situations, relationships, opportunities, and actions towards yourself and others that are a reflection of this unconditional love, compassion and respect.
Self love is not selfish. Self love and showing up for yourself daily is one of the least selfish things you can do. How can you expect to show up in the world and give love to others if you’re not taking care of yourself first?
Self love means that your cup will be so filled that you can pour that love out freely to the world from a fulfilled place instead of a depleted one, as well as settle for nothing less than the very best for yourself and those you love because you don’t actually NEED anything.
When you truly understand that you are the source of everything in your life, you can walk through life allowing things into your experience that are complimentary instead of supplimentary. This will improve the quality of your life, the quality of your interactions, and how you show up for the world!
You are the source of it all. You are the source of everything in your life. Your experiences, your relationships, your career, your circumstances, your interactions with this world and others all have one common denominator…
We tend to sacrifice ourselves for all the things above but when we take a step back and realize we are at the source of it all, we realize how important it is to take care of ourselves.
When we’re running low in the self love and self worth department we tend to…
Practicing self love and giving from a fulfilled place this time of year can be tough, but it also can be beautiful!
On tonight’s Free Holliday Season Survival Series Coaching & Q&A Call I will be digging deep into the above, and also give you practical tools to practice self love during the holiday season and always!
Talk to you soon!
Health & Love,
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